The Chosen Lady

Three weeks ago, my husband and our son came home from his weekly piano lesson. As they walked through the door, I caught my husband saying to our son, “You’ll have to ask Mom what she thinks about that. She remembers a lot of details that I don’t.” Hmmm. My curiosity was piqued. What could our son possibly want to know that his dad didn’t feel he could answer thoroughly? Our son turned to me and asked me, “Is my father a good man?” Our son is adopted. His birth parents are my oldest daughter and a man she had partnered with for a short while. Thankfully, I was prepared…

Does anyone else settle into a good book when they are bored?  I love to escape into another world when mine seems blah.  Last weekend I was happily ensconced in Colleen Oakley’s novel, You Were There Too.  No spoiler alerts here, but I will say it was 100% satisfying from start to finish. https://colleenoakley.com/books/you-were-there-too/    (* Link to author website, not monetized.) I was sitting in my comfy chair reading the story of a woman having recurring dreams of a handsome stranger when I sensed someone was watching me. My less than stealthy seven-year-old daughter was staring at me in the hopes I would abandon my book in order to entertain…

There is a very interesting story in the Bible in the book of Hosea. Hosea was a prophet and God told Hosea to marry a prostitute. God was going to use Hosea as a living demonstration of His own love and patience for a nation that continually turned their back on Him. Israel was God’s chosen people – his bride. Yet the people of Israel were cheating on God by constantly returning to the pleasures of the world. Hosea not only had to marry a prostitute named Gomer – but he would be called to literally buy her back when she cheated on him yet again. “The Lord said to…

A friend shared a ‘magic’ card trick video with me today. On a table were six royal cards. A pair of Kings, a pair of Queens, and a pair of Jacks. The narrator said, “Focus on one of these six cards, really fix it in your mind. I will try to guess your card.” I dutifully focused on the King of Clubs and waited for the ‘magic.’ The video pans away for a moment and when the camera returned to the cards, the King of Clubs was gone. Hmmm. Now, the video wasn’t being done live, so how would the narrator guess my card and that of others? My friend…

I have always loved the story of the little boy and the starfish but as a certified marine docent I would be remiss if I didn’t share that starfish are now known as sea stars. In the story, a little boy is walking along a stretch of beach, and he sees all these stranded starfish. If they remain on the sand, they will dry up and die. The little boy picks one up and throws it into the ocean. An older man walks by and tells the little boy, “There are hundreds of starfish here young man! You won’t make a difference.”  The little boy proceeds to bend down, picks…

Have you ever had a moment in your life when everything turned to complete crap?  You’re in the wrong place at the wrong time. Everybody’s version of crap is different of course. If you are reading this and your life has taken a right turn towards Crapville, let me please say, I am so sorry you’re going through this. It hurts, it sucks, and it’s probably not fair. I thought about this as I was reading a story in the bible. It made me pause and think carefully about those crappy moments.  This story happens when the mob has come to arrest Jesus before he is to be crucified.  A…

I’m a huge fan of the 2001 movie, A Knight’s Tale. It’s a playful, suspend -your -disbelief story of a peasant rising above his circumstances through guile, jousting tournaments and sheer determination. The main character, Will, meets a naked man named Geoffrey Chaucer * trudging along the road. Geoff is a compulsive gambler and has lost his clothes to a bad bet.  Will and Geoff form a friendship based on mutual need. Geoff’s immediate needs are clothing and food. Will needs Geoff’s masterful writing and forgery skills. A memorable scene happens when a pair of debt collectors have come to take their payment from Geoff, but he cannot pay. These…

A personal update from Elle ~ these past few months have been tiring for me. I’ve had two surgeries – one in February and one ten days ago. This month also brought about the incarceration of my daughter, although that was an answer to prayer. Anyone who loves an addict will tell you the relief they feel when their loved one is incarcerated because you know where they are and that they are alive and safe. This week brought the difficult decision to leave my church of six years. Although at first that decision brought deep sadness, I am starting to see wonderful opportunities for growth. With that in mind,…

I used to have social media – this is an old post, but I saved it to remind myself what happens when I take on too much. I wanted to share with you how crucial it is to leave room for prayer. Three years ago…… As I have said many times before, I try to tell the unvarnished truth on Facebook. Although there’s nothing wrong with posting picture perfect vacation photos, we all know that there are another 51 weeks of the year where life can be rather sloppy. I want to share about one of those ‘precious moments’ and no, I don’t mean those doe-eyed kitschy figurines. Recently, I…